Ten Quick Tips for the woman who wants to tie the knot with the guy who wants to talk about it later:
1. Remember - most guys want to get married, they just want to put it off for as long as they can.
2. Make sure you and your boyfriend are on the same page about marriage, children, etc. - Let him know where you stand - and clearly!
3. Stop dropping those daily hints about marriage - plan a really good heart to heart chat instead.
4. When it comes to marriage understand how women and men can be programmed differently (no one ever said, "diamonds are a man's best friend).
5. Most guys think about the "Bigger Better Deal" - so try not to take it too personally.
6. His hesitancy does not necessarily mean rejection.
7. Try not to compare the pace of your relationship to all the friends who are getting married --- how quickly a couple gets engaged does not reflect the quality of the relationship.
8. Be in touch with why you want to get engaged right now at this time in your relationship.
9. Give yourself an ultimatum instead of putting one on him.
10. Know When to Keep Him and Know When It's Time to Sweep Him!
And if there were a number 11, of course it would be, "Pick up a Copy of HIS COLD FEET" - it'll help!
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